I have recenlty had my DD last Friday November 17th a month earlier than when she was due, all is well. I am trying to exclusively breast feed and in the hospital everything was going great, b/c it was just colostrum that she was feeding. Monday my milk started coming in and became very engorged and then my DD would fall asleep and the breast and would not completely latch on. Went to Outpatient NICU nursery yesterday for weight ck and has lost 6 oz. Nurse gave nipple shield b/c DD was not latching b/c of swelling and nipples were flat. Seems to be breastfeeding ok now but it is like every hour and a half to two hours. My dh, a wonderful man trying to do everything he can but he needs his rest to b/c he is the only one working, is a police officer and works nights so I am extremely exhausted. Is it ok to exclusively pump and bottle feed and am I being a selfish bad mother for wanting to do this. I have got to get some rest soon or I am going to crash, please help!!!!!