Re: Supply @ 14 days
ah, yes, 10 mins would be a slow let down! and totally it makes sense that it's about stress and not being able to find a comfortable position. i hope some of the above suggestions work for you.
re: bedsharing - LLL does not have an official policy. there are safe & unsafe ways to do it, according to the research that looks at it (mckenna's, in particular). the studies that show risk lump planned & unplanned, safe & unsafe bedsharing together. breastfeeding cuts SIDS risk by half, and bedsharing promotes breastfeeding. so many many LLL mamas do it and recommend it. i thought that bedsharing put babies at risk for suffocation, not for SIDS, but a lot of the research conflates the two, so maybe to your ped those are the same things.
i imagine you've seen this but just in case you haven't: http://cosleeping.nd.edu/
sometimes i find it better not to mention things i think aren't my doctor's business, like where baby sleeps. in fact i don't think i've ever had that convo with a doc. other things i end up thinking it's good for me to "educate" the doc on, like when i'll start solids, especially when the way i'm doing it is in line with the doctor's professional organization's recommendations
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