Re: Feeling guilty about OS
I am sorry your DH suggested that you could "just EP". I am sorry, but there's no such thing as "just" EP. The work involved is immense when compared to breastfeeding. It's as if your husband said "Instead of walking on your feet, which is difficult right now, you could simply walk on your hands. For an entire year."
You are doing single-sided feedings, and that will eventually decrease supply. Have you tried doing longer blocks (I.e. more than one feeding in a row on the same breast)? The fuller you let the unused side get, the more likely it is that your body will get the message that too much milk is being produced, which should lead to a more rapid reduction in supply.
You do have to be patient when it comes to getting a persistent oversupply to calm down. It's not going to go away overnight. Give block feeding a few weeks to take effect. Ad maybe try drinking some sage or peppermint tea? Those are oth supposed to be good for reducing supply.
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