My LO is almost 2 months old and we've been struggling with breastfeeding from day 1. She is almost 4 weeks post tongue tie and also struggles with my overactive letdown and flat nipples. We have literally been sitting on the couch struggling for 2 full months now and I'm at the end of my rope. Sometimes she'll start to do really well--improved deeper latch, draining the breast, etc, and continue to improve for several days, and then BAM, suddenly one day we're back at square 1--with a latch so shallow she can't transfer milk if my breast is even a little bit soft. I try to pump but for some reason I just can't seem to pump efficiently--the pump doesn't elicit my letdown and I never get more than an ounce or two. She hates bottles anyway--I've tried 3 different kinds. Today and yesterday she has been extremely sleepy, waking up to root a little, then when I try to latch her on she either falls asleep again before I can get her to get a decent latch or falls asleep trying to transfer milk from the shallow latch. I'm so worried that my baby isn't getting enough--why does she keep backsliding like this?? Need encouragement!! I can't stand the thought of weaning after all we've been through but I can't take much more of this.