Re: What does a "good"stash look like?
i think the key to not running into problems is to deal with it IMMEDIATELY when you aren't making enough - like, the next day, or certainly that week. if you continually are using freezer stash, even slowly, then you're just delaying the inevitable disaster where you run out. but if you address the supply issue right away, then you still have your stash as your cushion while you get your supply back where it needs to be. this can result in a little obsessiveness if you're not careful - i was counting every single oz every single day, and i hope not to go quite so crazy next time. good luck!
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