Re: Breastfeeding more now at almost 12 months than newborn!
this was totally us, too. i think you know when you have to make some changes that keep you sane; it sounds like you're there! my advice is to pick the thing that you actually, most want to change, and work on just that one thing at a time. so do you want her to fall asleep without nursing? or do you want her to nap better? or do you want her not to nurse all night long? etc. those are all different things.
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