Paytek, I love that you are brutally honest. I find your response hilarious, just trying not to offend but apparently I'm being waay too nice. I hear you about coworkers, that's another reason I love all the moral support in this community. You ladies, rock!!! Great links, thanks everyone for that. I'll be sure to print some good highlighted info, copy & paste in large print the important parts on how much better breastmilk is for baby. I know what you mean, filmmommy. Why would anyone think cow's milk is better for a human baby? It even sounds ridiculous. It makes me really mad when anyone tries to give baby sugar, so of course it's happened behind my back there, too. Unacceptable! Mumtothomas the boundaries issue is concerning me, also. Joshuasmommy no I'm not going to let her talk me into weaning, I just wasn't sure how to approach the topic, I want it to be clear the topic is not up for discussion. Great links thank you for sharing that everyone. Mimibrookly, thanks for the moral support I'll try to not let it bother me. Who knows, maybe DH will step in, but he seems to not be concerned which frustrates me, but that's another thread. lol. So I'll just make it not a big deal. We will continue to do our thing beyond a year, and I'm so proud of us for that.