I don't mind the nursing, but some days it can be too much. Pulling at my shirt, screaming for boobie, non stop nursing days. I have been hoping she would self wean, but I got a bit proactive the other day, and put olive juice on my boobs. It totally stopped her from groping me and asking, but she wants to see them to find out what is wrong, she keeps asking why they are " scratchy" and asks me to fix them. It's very hard emotionally for me. She turned three the other day, and weaning is reminding me she is not a baby anymore! Boo hoo! How hard do you think it is to wean a girl who does not want to, and mommy does not really want to, either! I'm just worried that I am trying to satisfy mommy needs, and maybe she needs that push. It's too hard!!! I have struggles from day one with this love/ hate relationship with breast feeding!!! So many ups and downs, clogged ducts, sore nipples, aching back! But, my baby has always been happy and healthy! I don't want to confuse her with this olive juice thing, but I don't mind night nursing. Should I take the lead, or wait for her? Am I the problem? I don't want a four year old on my boob.