Its nice to know that my son isn't a odd ball but I am happy him trying it out and learning for him self made him give up makes the time he spends with grandma more peaceful for the both of them not having to hear the fight over him lifting her shirt and trying to nurse from her. I didn't offer cross nurse but I did give tons of extra breast milk to my friend for her son since she was told by her dr she wasn't producing milk that's why her son was hungry all the time. So once I had my son and found out I had a huge over supply I would give her my extra milk for her son. So for the first month of his life he had formula but the next 5 months he got my breast milk. Sadly I got sick and my supply took a big hit and more so once I had surgery so I was no longer able to help her out any more.