Re: help! pacifier = breast refusal
So once she's nursing and there's milk there she stays on? Maybe you could hand express just enough to get your milk flowing and then latch her on. So she isn't sucking waiting on milk. Might be worth a shot just to see if it helps.
I think if her weight gain is fine and she's having plenty of wet diapers, is happy, is growing, meeting milestones...you're probably feeding her plenty. Especially since you have an abundant milk supply. That wouldn't continue if she weren't stimulating it.
I think you're doing alright here, mama. Don't lose your cool.
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