Re: nursing three month to sleep every time
Totally normal for such a young baby to depend on mom to transition into sleep. Don't think of co-sleeping and on-demand nursing as causing problems- think of them as solutions to the problem of normal but frustrating infant behavior!
Do you have a sling, a swing, and a stroller? Those 3 tools can be invaluable for a mom who needs a little freedom during her baby's nap. My first kid napped in the swing until she was about a year, and then transitioned to napping in her crib. My second kid is 2.5 years old and still naps only in her stroller (or carseat)- but I don't care because I get to go for a walk every day and because I know that my toddler will eventually stop napping and then the daily stroller session will be a thing of the past!
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"