Is your daughter in danger with her ("literally crazy" comment made me ask)? I think you have been helped, you just may not want to do what was suggested . I'm also suggest dream feeding. I did it for months with both my sons to relieve some fullness and prevent clogs. Hang in there mama. It seems like even if you wanted to wean you'd have a hard/painful time, so keep nursing.
Mommy to Maxwell 10-9-07 weaned with love (a party and a remote control monster truck) on his 4th birthday
My Boy 3-16-10
And my sweet pea Sam 2-12-11
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