I am getting some pushback from my family about how I am caring for my LO. She is nearly 10 weeks old and we still breastfeed a lot. She will often eat every 1-2 hours, sometimes more. I feed her when she seems hungry but also when she's fussy or tired. It almost always calms her. When we aren't nursing, I wear her in a sling or mei tai. There are times when I put her in a bouncy seat so I can shower or do a quick chore but I pick her up as soon as she fusses and I do whatever she needs to be happy. She is a high need baby so she likes to be held and walked and nursed a lot. My family has been ok until recently. My dad has started commenting in how often she eats. My mom tells me she needs to cry some so she can learn patience. My husband says she's getting spoiled. I'm congratulated when i let her sleep in her crib instead of in my arms. I think she's still a tiny baby and needs lots of love and attention. Am I off base? I love my family and respect their opinions, but if my actions aren't crazy then I need to know how to lovingly but firmly respond to their comments.