DD2 is 2 weeks old. DH and I have been discussing whether or not to introduce a pacifier or not. DD1 had latch problems and never really took on to it. (Also started her too early). We would wait until 3-4 weeks as recommended this time. DD2 has been extra fussy past couple days, only thing to calm her is nursing. DD1 is 3 years old so she needs my attention also, and when its just us I can't be sitting down all night nursing DD2. She is also waking up as soon as I lay her down. I just need a little time to get things done and take care of DD1. I would only let her have it once she has nursed first and only for naps and bedtime. Also, I wouldn't want to use it past 6-7 months so hopefully weaning from it would be easier. Any thoughts or recommendations?