Re: bad latch and LAZY BABY!! HELLP GOING TO QUIT!!! :'-((
First thing's first. Take a deep breath. It's going to be alright. You sound really frustrated, and I totally understand the stress. But your baby can pick up on that stress too and it won't help.
Can you hand express? Do you have a pump? When's the last time you nursed? Has the latch issue been going on for a while or is this something new?
The first thing I'd suggest is to try either hand expressing or pumping just enough to get your milk going, rub some on your nipple and see if you can at least get him to eat that way, let it drip into his mouth for now if that's what it takes to get him fed. Later, when you are both calmer and he's not hungry, you can work on getting your latch right.
Everything's going to be alright. We can help you work through this.
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