Re: How do I respond?
You're doing exactly what you should be doing. Responsive parenting is the best parenting, and a 10 week old baby is brand-new and needs her mommy's cuddles and milk. You can't "spoil" a baby!
I would get your DH on board with your parenting style- maybe have him read some of the Sears & Sears Baby Book? Don't engage your parents on this until your DH is on board and unless you're ready for an argument.
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"