Re: drying up....have low supply to begin with...stopping bf
some random thoughts:
yes, most people with new babies get behind on housework. lots of people find they can get some done by carrying baby in a sling or wrap. lots lower their standards. i think it's a matter of figuring out which things you really need for your mental health (ie, floors mopped or clutter put away? maybe not both ) and prioritizing your time. you have it doubly hard with the nrusing and pumping, so be gentle with yourself! it does get easier and the house WILL get cleaner as baby gets older.
i don't think you can actually OD on oatmeal, and likely not on galactagogues, depending on what you're taking.
it is normal for moms to stop feeling their breasts "fill up" and "empty" at some point. not a sign of low supply.
good job on the 11 feedings!
how old is the hospital grade pump? is it easy for you to swap it? might not hurt.
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