Well....I want you to know that before DJ went 2 weeks with out nursing he went to every other day and then every couple of days. I am just telling you that so you don't get all frustrated when it's not over in the next 2 weeks.
We had a blowout party. And we went somewhere where I have NEVER EVER taken him before. And was really quite opposed to. Chuckie Cheese. It was the largest proverbial carrot ever. Really. And it loomed in front of him for 6 months. He wanted to go. Bad. But it still took 6 months of it being on the table for him to pull it out. Lyn and her whole family came down from washington with her two nurslings. And A bunch of his friends from preschool came. One thing you could do is buy her a "big girl" gift. DJ best gift was a sleeping bag. That felt like a real grown up present to a 4.5 year old.