Re: Mom ready to wean but 2 1/2 year old is not :/
When toddler nursing is getting annoying, limits are your friend!!! Limits can be things like no nursing in public. Or no nursing in between wake-up and nap. Or my personal favorite: "You can nurse until I count to 5, and then you need to get down and play". I find that I can retain my enthusiasm for nursing as long as I can dictate the terms, YKWIM? And setting limits is a really good first step towards complete weaning, so it's not like I'm saying that you should just keep going until your baby self-weans.
One reason I continue to nurse my 2.5 year-old is that while I frequently find her demand and her nursing style annoying, nursing her is often faster and less annoying than what I might have to do otherwise. Like when she has bumped her head and is SCREAMING at the top of her lungs in a restaurant. Or when she is exhausted and needs to go to bed, but we're in a strange place and she won't calm down. That sort of thing is why I would encourage you to consider nursing a little longer, at least until you're through this huge move you're about to make! Not saying that you SHOULD, mind you, just that there are advantages to continuing on.
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"