I desperately need to hear some words of wisdom/advice from mothers who've been in similar situations. I'm in a friends wedding in a couple of months. She has chosen to have a destination bachelorette party 6 hours away. I have only been away from my nursing son twice, each time was for just a night. If I go, I'm committing to 3 nights away. It's in a month so my son will just be 12 months. We don't supplement formula but he is eating a lot of solids. We bedshare so he nurses frequently through out the night. My husband and mother-in-law are very supportive of me going and are willing to care for him day and night. But I can't help but feel guilty already about leaving him! I'm so afraid he'll wean himself if he's without me for that long. Not to mention how uncomfortable I'll be away from him (emotionally & physically). With my short overnights before I was always very engorged even after pumping. I feel very torn and undecided on whether to go or not! Does anyone have a similar experience around this age? How did it go?