It has been said already, but find a new pediatrician. We ditched our Ped within one week of our daughter's birth because we were so uncomfortable with the practice. We asked around for referrals, but as you are on your 3rd you've no doubt figured out you have to ask like minded people for referrals. If you ask someone who doesn't EBF and lets their baby CIO, etc. they're not practicing your style of parenting and therefore may not have an issue with any type of Ped. If you can find a more holistic practice with an east meets west approach, that will probably suit you. They often don't take insurance, although you may be able to bill back as out of network. Good luck. I really empathize with you on this. Just thinking about our first Ped makes me grimace.