Re: Age of self-weaning?
My first LO weaned just after her third birthday.
I wouldn't stress about this right now, at just 10 months in! So much can and will change in the next year or so. It's really hard to imagine what nursing a toddler will be like when you're nursing a baby- but as the PP said, it's really different.
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"