Re: PLEASE help, he's refusing the breast
Welcome to the forum and congratulations on the new baby!
When you have a baby on a nursing strike, you can't force him to nurse, so you want to gently lure him back to the breast. This link outlines the various techniques for doing so: http://kellymom.com/bf/concerns/child/back-to-breast/. The skin-to-skin and instant reward techniques are supposed to be particularly helpful.
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