Re: Baby "snacking" and not napping
I also want to agree with PP! I, too, had the same worries as you and your husband. My little one was a "cat-napper" very early on. He also snacked a lot and I was worried about him. His diaper output was good and he was a happy and content baby. He didn't seem to find a routine of longer sessions/longer stretches between(nursing and naps) until probably 5-7 months. And now he will nap for 2 hours at a time for my mom! It can be tough for getting anythign accomplished around the house, but - this too shall pass and change!
FT working momma to a 9/11/10 busy boy and 11/13/12 happy little man.
Also wife to hubs since 8/23/08, bonus momma to H (girl) -99 and G (boy)-03