Re: Overnight Nursing Issues!
Welcome to the forum! Pardon my laziness, but I'm just going to cut-and-paste from something I wrote on another thread:
Tips for night-weaning-
- The first nursing session of the night can really set the pattern for the rest of the night, so nurse your LO until she is drowsy and relaxed, but not asleep, and then pop her into bed. She may be extremely resistant to going to sleep without a breast in her mouth, but you don't need to give in just because she's screaming.
- Wear restrictive clothing. Baby may be less eager to nurse if your breasts aren't easily accessible. A more restrictive top can also cut down on twiddling.
- Keep a sippy or bottle of water available for wake-ups. A night-waking toddler may be genuinely thirsty.
- Communicate. Before bed, tell your LO "Time for sleep. Mommy sleeps. Baby sleeps. Nursies (or whatever you call your breasts/nursing) sleeps. Everyone sleeps all night long. We can nurse again in the morning, when the sun comes up.". In the morning, after a successful night of no nursing, say "Mommy slept all night long. Baby slept. Nursies slept. Now it's morning, time to nurse again!"
- Expect plenty of screaming and even less sleep while you are working your way through the night-weaning process. Dedicated night-nursers don't give up without a fight.
- Consider moving baby to a different bed. She's old enough to sleep in her own bed, if you want her to do so. It may help you fight off night-nursing- it's really hard to say "no" when your kid is right there next to you. I'm not saying you should or must put your child in her own bed- just that it's an option on the menu.
- Be consistent. If you make the commitment to night-weaning, stay firm in your resolve. Backsliding will confuse baby and make the process take much longer than it otherwise would.
A lot of moms around here have used the Jay Gordon method, or something like it: http://drjaygordon.com/attachment/sleeppattern.html
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