oh, podutti! you are so smart for planning in advance a system of letting your DH know you need him just in case.
trust your inner voice. if you feel the urge to get a second opinion do it.
you might be able to get really good info from your ob/gyn.
i love my ob/gyn however, so maybe I am projecting.
I wrote this before seeing Mommal post, i did not mean to contradict her.
She is more knowledgeable about this condition.
DD#1 July 1986 VB
DD#2 April 1988 c/sec
DS#3 April 1990 VBAC
DS#4 June 1993 VB
DD#5 April 2001 c/sec
BTDT scars and stretchmarks,: wrinkles and grey hair