Hi. My lo is 14 months old. We are still bfing. She sleeps with me and my husband sleeps in another room. He can't sleep well with us since she has gotten bigger and we have a Queen and seems small for us. We intend to keep cosleeping but want to find a better solution. Also, I feel guilty leaving her alone after she is asleep and usually just fall asleep when she goes to bed. I'm also very tired and need the sleep. I work full time and take care of her full time at night and on the weekends. My husband is a SAHD and is with her all day. My husband wants to spend more time with me at night, like watching a movie, etc. I'm just too tired and feel that a movie is not more important than getting enough rest. Also, I absolutely have no sexual desire for him at all. I haven't started my periods yet so I am not having a cycle. I certainly don't want to leave her sleeping alone for that, it feels very selfish. Are these normal feelings? Will I ever feel a desire for him again? How do others get in romantic time if you are cosleepers? Thanks!