your DH will have so much adjusting to do when he comes home.
He will have to adjust to being a new dad.
he will look to you for his cues on how to hold and comfort the baby.
i would not muddle up his one on one time his son by the added pressure of feeding him.
let them fall in love the way fathers through out all generations have done. By holding and comforting and lulling and rocking.
DD#1 July 1986 VB
DD#2 April 1988 c/sec
DS#3 April 1990 VBAC
DS#4 June 1993 VB
DD#5 April 2001 c/sec
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