So my 3 week old is im assuming in a growth spurt. But also his latching has went to hell. As soon as i latch him he pulls away to a very shallow one and then wants to stay on me for 3-4 hours. If i put him down he cries roots sucks on his hands like he is starving. Which makes me wander if he is really hungry since i cant get him to keep a deep latch unless i force him to pretty much which makes me feel terrible because he fights it. Last night i was at my wits end and felt so defeated and worthless. My husband took him and i went and cried myself to sleep knowing they would be in within 30 minutes. Well my husband waited a hour and a half to bring him to me and he latched well and ate well then right to sleep he went. But i feel bad that my husband made him wait like we neglected him? My husbabd suggested to me this a.m. that maybe we should make him wait an hour or so before feeding him just because he fights it and i get upset. Is that ok or did/does anyone else do this or had to? I feel like since im at home all day with him its easiest to just respond with offering him the breast first but then have i made it harder to soothe him any other way now? Or have i misread him?