Re: Milk is gone.
do you think this is why she wasn't getting much while nursing the last few days? or the reverse? in problem-solving mode, i want to help you figure out what might have happened, if that's what you want to do. and reverse it!
and even if this is it - which is not certain yet - you did NOT fail her. you gave her 3.5 months of your milk! that's more than most mamas in the US. i know it's not what you wanted and it's ok to grieve that lost future, but you should still feel proud of what you did.
Nursing, pumping, cloth-diapering, babywearing, working professor mama with the awesomest SAHD ever.