Re: LO not eating.
how long do these "not eating" phases last? i'd be much more certain about a 24 hour average intake over a couple of days, than just one day's count, though 14 oz does sound really low. and how does she nurse when you're home with her all day? and are you weighing her before and after every single feed? that sounds exhausting (and maybe is causing you more anxiety than necessary?)
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