My little guy is closing in on 12 months (ack!) and his nursing manners are atrocious. He has a super shallow latch that hurts like crazy and I can't figure out how to get him to latch deeper. He uses his hands to push my breast away while simultaneously pulling at my nipple. It hurts! I can deal with his feet in my face, the 37 unlatch-relatchings and even the occasional bite, but this pulling has me at my wit's end. I have gone so far as to hold his arms down to his side while he nurses, but, as you can imagine, it just made him MAD. The only peaceful sessions we have are in the middle of the night. He is too tired to fight me and has a good, deep latch. How can I encourage him to nurse nicer during the day? TIA!