this weekend is my cousin's wedding and i have to leave DD (8 weeks old) with a babysitter. On Friday night I went to dinner with some friends and DH took care of her. She absolutely refused the bottle (of breastmilk) and screamed her head off until I came home. As soon as I nursed her she was calm and fell asleep. Yesterday I took my older DD to a bday party and left the baby with DH and my sister. Again, she refused a bottle and was fussy until I got back. She has taken bottles in the past---I don't understand why she's suddenly refusing them. It makes me so nervous to think that I have to leave her for an extended period of time and I don't know whether she's going to eat! Bringing her is not an option, nor is having her stay in another room at the wedding. She doesn't have her shots yet and I don't want her around a crowd like that. I also don't even know if it would be feasible because I don't think there are spare rooms to keep her and the babysitter in. Now I'm worried that maybe there's lipase in the frozen milk, even though she's had it before and it didn't seem to bother her. DH tried to give her formula last night just to see if that would be an option for Sunday and she refused that too. Any advice?