You can call me JoMo!
Mom to baby boy Joe, born 5/4/09 and breastfed for more than two and a half years, and baby girl Maggie, born 7/9/12.
I had/have two high needs babies for sure! But they both got better/are getting better with time. One thing that really did help A2 was letting the letdown stream into a burp cloth. You could always try that
Young SAHM of
Afton (A1) (1/24/09) and
Autumn (A2) (8/29/11)
Sealed in the SLC Temple
and and now CDing!
I was wondering, if the OALD is the problem, what if you got her to nurse until the beginning of your letdown, then gave her the old switcharoo--putting in her mouth your pinky finger with the nail down on the tongue, then once you let the letdown spray into a towel and it was calm, switch her back to the breast for the slower flow and comfort nursing?