Re: dairy allergy
We use coconut milk, flax milk, occasionally hemp milk. There is also rice and soy milk, though my son is allergic to soy and won't drink the rice milk for some reason. You have to stay on top of the whole diet to make up for what's missing, though. Make sure to provide calcium and vitamin d-rich solid foods like dark green veggies and beans and things like that. You might also consider continuing to nurse for a little while longer since nursing 3-4 times a day means you don't need to provide any other milk alternative. It might help you have peace of mind that no matter what she is eating (or not eating) she is getting everything she needs.
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