I also have a 14 month old that uses me as a pacifier, not just at night, but also during the day. I am not able to put him down once he is asleep because he is so used to being connected during sleep. I have going to try to Pull-off method, but I am not sure how this is going to work to help me getting him to sleep on his own. I would ideally, like to move him to his crib sometime through the summer as in the fall, I will not be here at bedtime. Any hints? Advice?