Alright here's my secret: I cosleep and my 14 mo uses my nipple as a pacifier all night. Also the only way she falls asleep is by nursing AND I have to hold her through the whole nap or she will wake up after 20 minutes. What have I done? I wish she could sleep without me so I could get some work done of spend time with the hubby. But if wishes were horses.... Any advice out there?