i have 11 day old baby girl. all about our feeding seams well - i have milk, she knows how to suck on my breast, that do not hurt. but, our nursing goes on in circles for like 2 hours in a row - she sucks for like 20 minutes, than takes a nap, than comes back in 10-15 minutes, than nurses again, and does that 3 to 4 times. after that she sleeps for 3 hours. if i try to make it quicker she either sleeps shorter between feeds (for an hour, hour and a half), or gets upset, cries, and stays awake and alert - crying, for hours. according to all the theories, this is far too long for a feeding period, and everyone is saying it should not take this long. please tell me what to do. thanks!