I have a few questions about co sleeping and nursing in bed. First, this may sound silly, but HOW do you nurse laying down? If I lay on my side I cant figure out which breast to feed the babe from...the lower breast seems too low and the upper breast too high. Where do you put your arms? I would like to try this but am terrified that I will smother my LO if I doze off. My LO was a preemie and I am sad to say that when he came home from the hospital I was convinced he needed to sleep in his own room. Now I have read many of the links here and I am so thankful because I learned how ridiculous it is to think that small infants should sleep banished to their own room and away from mom. My LO now sleeps in a newborn sleeper next to the bed and he sleeps so much better, and I feel better knowing that I am there for him. Nursing was very hard for us in the beginning and I succumbed to the common viscious cycle of worrying about supply, supplementing with formula, diminishing supply, etc. My LO was on about 50/50 BM and formula. I am now proud to say he is almost exclusively nursing and only gets 1 bottle in the evening with his vitamins (is this really necessary?). Any advice would be great!