Re: I cant take how BF = bb always wif u
I hate to say it, but that is motherhood. No matter how you feed your baby. It's a hard adjustment to being your own person to now having this baby who requires so much of you. But it's what it is. We all go through it. Why do you think so many of us have never left these boards? Parts of it get easier, we learn how to cope with it, but other parts are just the way that it is. I haven't gone to the bathroom without being interrupted in 5 years. Even when my children sleep through the night, I still sleep with one eye open because my senses are heightened to protect my young. I willingly give my child the last piece of food over giving it to myself. We all sacrifice a piece of ourselves to bring children into the world, it's the way it was meant to be. But if you do it with the right balance, it stops feeling like a sacrifice. It stops feeling like you have to literally give up who you are to take care of them. My advice would be to keep your support system strong. Find other mothers in real life. Rely on your mother/aunt/cousin/MIL to be a sounding board. We all need to rant about these things so that we don't take it out on our children. And stick around here. These llladies have been an unbelievable support to me over the last 5 years. Sometimes I feel like they are the only ones who get it.
If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun. - Katharine Hepburn