We have not been able to have a real weight check yet. She was weighed on a good scale at birth (we had a homebirth) but at the one week check in, also at home, they didn't bring the scale, so we used our bathroom scale to get an idea. Obviously not at all accurate. Birth weight was 7lbs 12oz, scale at one week said 7lbs and since then every time I weight it says 8lbs. So I think she is gaining fine, just not sure on the exact numbers.
As for the oatmeal water, I think the intended purpose is to get a little extra fiber in her. Again, I'm thinking I probably wont do it since she did poop again. She does seem a but uncomfortable when she I'd pooping and farting for that matter, but not to the point that I think she is in any pain. She just gets a bit fussy.
Just wanted so input from some others with experience. Part of my problem is I am currently living in Brazil, i only speak a little Portuguese, and my pedi speaks very little english, so sometimes fully communicating is hard, but we manage. That and the way they do things here can be very different.
Thanks for your help ladies, I'm sure you will see lots more of me. :-)