Re: **Need help and advice**
You can always try to get her to suck after she has eaten an ounce or two, so that neither of you are on edge. It sounds funny, but in a similar situation I found it useful to think of it as figuring our how to get the nursing to seduce my LO. How could I make it as wonderful for him as possible? Nursing for comfort was our ticket -- nursing for food came after (I was pumping). Nursing after your LO is asleep may help, if you can get her to suck. Also, absolutely no pacifiers if you want her to nurse! Throw them out now! Make your boob her paci for the time being. At least that advice helped me... Good luck!
Mother to a sweet boy, born at 34 weeks on 2/11/11.
Proud that I grew 26 lbs of baby before solids, and still counting...
We received banked milk in the NICU. Thank you, donors!!!