OMG I missed what you said about visitors. Yes, listen to pp! Moms need help not more stress, this is a common & problematic issue! So common LLL has come up with some good ideas with dealing with visitors. The following can also be found in The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding (8th edition) I strongly suggest this book to breastfeeding moms.

Door sign: http://www.llli.org/docs/00000000000...by_is_here.pdf

Refridgerator Help Sheet: http://www.llli.org/docs/00000000000...veyourhelp.pdf

A volunteer at the hospital gave me this poem when my oldest was born. To this day, and my kids are 8 & 5 now, if I start feeling pulled in 10 different directions I remember the wisdom in these words. Treasure this time with your dear baby. http://www.llli.org/docs/00000000000...esdontkeep.pdf