Re: My baby refuses to breast feed
Definitely not to late to get production going again, and it may well still be possible to transition back to breastfeeding. The PPs gave you some great links to follow, and I want to add one more: http://www.kellymom.com/bf/concerns/...to-breast.html. It talks about all the ways to get a baby who has been weaned or who resists nursing to come back to the breast. In particular, the skin-to-skin and instant reward techniques can be helpful in luring a baby back to the breast.
I am really sorry your family has been so unhelpful. I suggest being very upfront with them and telling them what you need. Let them know that unsupportive comments are not helpful and you don't want to hear them, and then tell your mom and husband what you do need to hear, things like "You can do this, you are a great mommy," and "Let me get takeout/do the laundry//scrub the toilets while you focus on pumping and nursing" and "It's okay if it's not working out right at this minute, you are working so hard and there's still lots of time to get things back on track".
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"