My daughter is turning one in 2 weeks. I am so ready to wean her but don't know where to start. I've been giving her solids for awhile and other food like rice..etc. but she won't eat as much. At her last appointment the ped. said that she was under weight. She was only 14lbs. at 9 months....probaly still the same. When I try to give her solids she won't fully open her mouth. So she only get the tip of the spoon. This has been going on for awhile. All she wants to do is to nurse. She'll cry and cry and cry..for so long. I feel like I'm doing something wrong. She is my first child and I want the best for her, thats why I chose to nurse. But she seem to be depending on that way too much. I hate to see her like that. So I always give in. How can I really start weaning her? Is it time for me to see a lactation specialist? Do they help wean? HELP. thanks in advance!