Yes, she loves water! And I think you're right about letting her decide what she wants... I'm still scarred from her refusal to nurse days when I knew she was hungry, but those days are long gone. She will sign when she wants to nurse, and shake her head "no" when she doesn't more so in the past couple of weeks, and this is really helping me see that she knows what she wants!
I took her to a naturopathic doctor/midwife to get another opinion on her continuing reflux and she also said that she would do fine without additional supplementation if she only nursed 4 times a day! So that made me feel better too... Just have to keep exploring new solids I guess!
Thank you all for weighing in - It has made me feel much better about her relationship to food!