Re: I need some advice!
Sorry! I have had those same feelings of frustration with the lack of husband help and feeling resentful with the nursing relationship (a symptom of feeling overwhelmed by your responsibilities). No matter your choice, you are not a bad mom. For me, I found the importance of maintaining the nursing relationship to trump some of my other responsibilities. If my husband didn't pick up the slack, then oh well the clothes didn't get folded or we ate only a simple meal for dinner. Good luck!
Son #1 Born Winter 2004 (BF/FF out of ignornance, nursed for 3 years)
Son #2 Born Fall 2009 (EBF thanks to LLL!!!)
Be the change you wish to see in the world!
Best book ever: Gabrielle Palmer's "The Politics of Breastfeeding, when breasts are bad for business"