Re: Taking too much nipple? Weak latch?
Forget for a moment about how her latch looks, and tell us how it feels. In general, a latch that feels good IS good, even if it looks wonky. And a latch that looks good but feels bad is bad.
I think that if your baby is gaining weight well and the latch feels okay, you're probably stressing over nothing. And don't worry about those "frequent" daytime feedings- nursing every 90 minutes or so is totally normal during both day and night. Anyone who tells you that babies "should" go longer stretches (3-4 hours is often mentioned) is an escapee from a mental hospital.
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"