LOL! I so didn't mean to take over the post with the diet soda complaint, but thanks for the support. He's over every week, and yes, he brings his own. We don't keep it here in the house. I know he's only giving her sips, not the whole thing, but I don't want her to have any. Period. There is absolutely no benefit from it, and it's very unhealthy for her (not to mention bad on her teeth!) And I really don't like her sharing food or drinks with anyone as a lot of family members have cold sores periodically, and one cousin always has strep. It's easier to just explain no sharing food or drink to her than making a list of who to avoid and who's ok, so to speak. He knows I get pretty upset about the sharing thing so you would think he'd really avoid a double whammy of sharing and giving her soda. I hate confrontations, but I'm going to have to intervene for her sake and DD2. I try to pick my battles, but when it comes to my girls health, I have to speak up. I will say he is a great grandpa, and a great dad. I think he just hasn't take me seriously about our rules. I am sure he will eventually.