Re: borrowing trouble?!?!!?
I think that if you are feeling extreme anxiety over the idea leaving your baby, it's for a good reason. Not all mom-baby pairs are ready for a days-long separation at a given point in time. I know there's no way I could have left either of my kids for that long at that age, no matter how romantic the gesture in question was supposed to be. They were both too bonded to me and to my husband, and they definitely were not consuming sufficient solids at that point to make up for breastmilk in their diets. Maybe that's not the reassuring answer you're looking for...
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"